“Love yourself, okay?” Three simple words.

Why is it so difficult to follow through? Why is it a constant struggle to look in the mirror and genuinely admire the person looking back at me? It seems so easy to pinpoint the negatives. It suddenly occurred to me to ask myself, “Who am I comparing myself to?” I see all of these imperfections, but compared to what exactly?

It requires a thorough self-evaluation to love yourself truly.

I was so superficial. I can’t stand when someone is shallow, vain, and only focuses on the outward appearance, yet here I was just like those I so harshly judge. The saddest thing is that I was that way towards myself.

I am my harshest critic; My enemy.

Think of the most confident person you know. What characteristics stand out to you about that person? They exuberate something special for you to notice. But what exactly? Do they smile a lot? Are they highly outgoing? Do they radiate charisma? Is there a mental checklist you go by?

From what I’ve observed, they recognize and appreciate themselves and their values. Determining what those values are to you involves diving deep and knowing what’s important to you. Have you been so focused on the…